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Allow the healing Love, Be vulnerable

Dare Ojuoye
3 min readOct 18, 2023

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We all have been confused many times, not knowing where to go or what to do next? Often times our minds are clouded by our lust for wants much more than our needs. Confusion has set a lot of People astray, that the moment their true purpose in life shifted, the more their mind got sadder and darker. It’s okay to want the beautiful things in life, come to think of it should we be driven by greed much more than truer purpose of our existence or should we be driven by compassion and vulnerability?

What do we call Love?

The word love originated from the Hebrew word “Bahava" which means “to give". Love gives and never stops giving, Love absorbs and never stops absorbing. We have allowed lust, greed and selfishness to be our motivation thereby igniting the switch. The scriptures called love God. If God is Love that means he has been giving to us ever since. Not money but the rain, the trees, the fruits, the earth, animals, humans, stars, birds, galaxies, seasons, guidance, protection, planets, stellar, moon, animals and the list grows infinite, don’t tell me all that was just a big bang theory. Lol! The big bang theory to me is more than just a theory, that was a miracle.

Love….. so pure and true, it never fails, we made love mere words, we said it just to please people even when we don’t truly mean it. If love were meant to be said, then why do actions peak louder than words? Have we sat and wondered that we were the ones that failed ourselves and never did love fail anyone. Well, it’s easy to blame what you don’t know. Easy to blame the devil for your sins, knowing fully well that accepting to be at fault sets you free than blaming someone else, Love makes us responsible not the otherwise.

“What if it is the inabilities of man reflects a vacuum of support yet to be filled by his pair or her pair?”

How do you let it lead?

Be vulnerable, trust love that you are not for yourself alone, but for others as well. Trust the (Holy spirit) Love, for it leads you right. Don’t expect it, but give it only, then you can get it back in return. If these looks mysterious. i will ask if you trust the law of karma. If you do then this article is for you, if you don’t then you have some more healing to do.

Understand that no one can love you the way you want to be loved, except in fairy tales and fantasies, well, for the right price you might get a fair love, everything is bought nowadays. Not Love though, i meant the fair love, you see they are different. The fair love — Gives you what you give her while Love — Gives you all and never asks back.

For Love gives free and never expects, for it’s nature has made it nothing but a blessed bring. Remember Jesus said in the scriptures in Mathew 10 vs 8. I have tasted love doesn’t mean I haven’t had a small dose of hate, complexity means growth, when fair love seems safe, had it ever occur to you, that complacency in your heart towards Love is introduced by extreme comfortability of not caring for others enough. Tell me about the one who ate his cake and had it. I know you want Love so bad, are you willing to give it.

This is what i tell myself every time.

You are reading the thoughts of a man, whose spatial view of life is beyond him, scribbling my thoughts here in this paper glass, you just had a sip my friend.

Thanks for sharing with me….

By Dare Ojuoye

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Dare Ojuoye

Dare Ojuoye is the head of Digital Marketing at Ace Idea Consults. He is in charge of Local content development and digital content development.